Because I’m fucking fat.
If you want to stop having self-doubt days, go right ahead. I will support you in any way that I can.
But fuck you for saying that the days you feel gross and lazy and unsuccessful are your “fat days.”
Because my fat days are full of love, and compassion, putting up a fight for those that I love, feeling beautiful, and fighting against those who would rather see me fail.
Fat is not a bad word, and it’s not the reason for your shortcomings. So stop it.
It comes down to who is the patient. Is the woman the patient, or is the fetus the patient? One or other is the patient. I’ve never heard a fetus talk to me. I’ve heard thousands and thousands of women share their pain, their desperation, and their hopelessness.
—
Dr. George Tiller, an abortion provider from Wichita, Kansas, who was murdered on May 31, 2009. (via iamdrtiller)
*Not just cis-women
(via iamnotethan)
My first born child goes to the person who can make me these.
Just made these. They are delicious.
Every day is a “fat day” for me.
It’s raining babies
Guide to loving your body:1. Get naked and take a good long look at your body. Trace your stretch marks, feel your hip bones poking out, place your hand over your tummy and take a fistful of yourself in. Appreciate your scars and pimples, your uneven,large,or nonexistent breasts. Take pride in your un/shaven, un/cut, fantastically odd private bits. Hold up a mirror to yourself and study your body. Love it.
2. Be Ugly, reclaim words that are used to put you down and shut you up and scream right back at these fascist beauty standard reinforcing scumbags. Give them the finger and tell them to kiss your fat/skinny/somewhere in between ass ‘cause you ain’t got time to waste with their body hating bullshit. and remember, you don’t owe prettiness to anyone. Validate yourself by accepting yourself.
3. Wear clothes that don’t fit, that are too big or too small and show all your “problem areas” that cosmo insists you hide and walk down the street like the fucking fabulous queen you are. Sashay the hate away.
4. Do what YOU want with YOUR body. Shave or don’t, wear makeup or don’t, whatever choice you make is yours to make, and anyone who shames you for your decision can keep it moving. This also means respecting the choices of others, even if they differ from your own.
5. Surround yourself with loving and supportive people. Rid of the toxic bullshit in your life if possible, and immerse yourself in a community that embraces body positivity and diversity.
—
brazen bitch (via pussy-envy)
sashay the hate away.
ya’ll need to be following paula.
(via sexxxisbeautiful)
this is the most superb advice
(via methodistcoloringbook)
Brava, brava.
(via arcadefireman)
I organized my nail polish! Yay, it looks so much better now.
My nail polish collection is getting out of hand.
It’s weird how teaching is coded as a female profession (and is statistically dominated by women), but the educators society has elevated to pop icon status are all men.
(Source: bouncingdodecahedrons)
:)
All of us that hide from the world (for all our various reasons) should build a commune & just play on Tumblr all day…together.
Me and inlikewithlife do this whenever she’s over.
“We are the girls with anxiety disorders, filled appointment books, five-year plans. We take ourselves very, very seriously. We are the peacemakers, the do-gooders, the givers, the savers. We are on time, overly prepared, well read, and witty, intellectually curious, always moving… We pride ourselves on getting as little sleep as possible and thrive on self-deprivation. We drink coffee, a lot of it. We are on birth control, Prozac, and multivitamins… We are relentless, judgmental with ourselves, and forgiving to others. We never want to be as passive-aggressive are our mothers, never want to marry men as uninspired as our fathers… We are the daughters of the feminists who said, ‘You can be anything,’ and we heard, ‘You have to be everything.’”—Courtney Martin
OMFG. THISSSSS.
Oooooohhhhhhh man, this hits home way too much.
Rachet Music Wedsenday
Smell Yo Dick: Riskay
But why is it so catchy doe, lol
wowwwww, they sang it. lmao
Step 1: Go someplace public with your laptop.
Step 2: Click HERE
Step 3: Press f11
Step 4: Start typing frantically.
Step 5: Make sure other people see your screen.
Step 6: ???????
Step 7: Profit
This was fun.
Groundbreaking diversity, to be quite honest.
^
“We’ve got jeans for small butts, slightly small butts, and very small butts! The female shape is a wonderful thing!”
Look at all those shapes and sizes!
(Source: memewhore)
